I was brought up in a Christian home, As a Christian I got confirmed and got married, went to church all my life, and I knew God, but in my thirties a friend said I wasn't a Christian, because I wasn't born again, and it turned out to be true.
So after a few years I gave my life to God through Jesus Christ, I searched for God after this lady told me this that I wasn't born again, and it is in the Bible, John 3 v 3 if you read John's gospel it's very clear that we have to be born again of the water and the spirit
We just need to do this with all our hearts offer ourselves to God and repent of all our sins. It's not enough just to go along to church and do all the things that we do on Sunday and attend Sunday school and everything else.
I did all that and read God's words out in church that is not enough.
We have to know in our hearts that we've totally surrendered to him, and he brings us peace that passes all understanding and he is our peace because he's the one that saves us, we can't save ourselves.
We can't follow any other traditions or whatever in the church. It's only by faith, by grace and by faith we are saved.
It's what God's done for us and what Jesus did on the cross and once I got baptised, that showed what had happened in my heart it showed the people round about what had gone on in my heart.
So we need to come to Jesus and be baptised to show what has happened in our hearts but we also need regular fellowship with other believers and go to be among people who know the lord.
So that we can be accountable to them and we can share our our problems with them and they will pray for us.